This week’s reading is a one card reading which is thought
provoking. It is from The Wood You Believe deck by Fr Jim Cogley.
TIES THAT BIND – So many people live a life that lacks
freedom, because of being unconsciously tied to someone else, be they alive or
departed. Where the bondage is ancestral
it often causes the victim to replicate aspects of the life that they are
identified with. The ties that might
enslave our spirits are many and varied.
*Could I be tied to a loved one that I have never let go of?
*Could I be tied to a past relationship that I still cling
to?
*Could I be tied to an abuser who targeted me as their
victim?
*Could I be tied to an ancestor or sibling I was expected to
replace?
*Could I be tied to someone who has too much control over my
life?
*Could I be tied to a parent who expected me to fill their
needs?
*Could I be tied to a parent who burdened me with their
unlived life?
Two birds tied together may have four wings but they still
can’t fly.
Thought provoking questions there, and many of these ties
can be at a sub conscious level, so asking Spirit to bring to light any of
these ties that are holding you back, may be the first step to healing for
you. On a conscious level, this happens
in many relationships. It can manifest
in many different ways, like worrying about people around you, trying to help
them by trying to “save” them from the consequences of their actions. It is a reminder that each person has their
own path to walk and minding your own path first is essential. More often than not when you try to help
someone who hasn’t asked for your help or opinion, they don’t heed anything
that you have advised. You end up feeling
more frustrated than they do!!
Healing of the past is essential for your own personal
growth and to move forward to a place of freedom. You are doing it for yourself, not to let the
other person off the hook for hurting you in your past. They are carrying their own burdens from the
past, and will find their way to healing too and if they don’t it isn’t your
business. Your business is looking after
your own healing, helping yourself to a place of freedom and light.
It is very freeing to “let go” – and we see that message so
often, “let go”. Most of the time it is
letting go of emotions and stepping back from people and situations that bring
you to lower frequencies. I just thought
this morning, that there is still some purging and letting go happening in this
first month of the New Year and that the Chinese New Year starts on February 19th
and that energetically, THAT may be the first day of our new year. That is why we are still being reminded of
letting go of negatives, the past and cleaning up our bodies. Many people are coughing, sneezing, have eye
problems, so are letting go of substances in the body that aren’t serving
them. A reminder to drink clear, clean
water to help with this spring clean! As
I say that too, many are being guided to de clutter from their houses and
offices. So on whatever level you are
being nudged to let go, I hope you will have a great week of easy letting
go. Angels, guides and Spirit are around
you waiting for your decision to let go and will help you make it as easy as
possible. Love and Light to you all xx
Mary
#ancestors #co-dependency #letgo #newyear #chinesenewyear
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